Grand Love. (Grandparent’s day is September 8, 2024)
This article was originally featured in Windsor Life.
Grandchildren. Perhaps the greatest love of all. This love is delayed until the sweetest time in life. A time where we have gained wisdom, experiences and a desire to share. And in a stage where we can re-focus our time and attention. Becoming a grandparent expands your heart again. It works that love muscle.
What does leaving a legacy mean to you? For me, it’s not just money, but what did their ‘Gigi’s’ life mean. What was her soul print on this world. What can my family say about my contribution and time on this earth. I see my efforts and labor of love in my three adult children, and I see my lineage, wisdom and experiences in my granddaughter.
Everyone told me how great having grandchildren would be. And it is! What caught me by surprise is the immense joy and pride I feel watching my oldest daughter become a mother. It is proof positive that I may have done some things right! I witness her patience and desire to teach her child. I can only hope I helped make this important contribution.
Grandparenting can also bring up insecurities and guilt. Could we have done things differently? Should we have done things differently? A grandchild is a product of the work we put in 20, 30 + years ago. And they are a mirror today of our greatest hopes and dreams for the future. Their future.
So, this grandparent’s day- some of you who may not have had grandchildren yet had a deep desire. For some, who’s grandchildren may be at a geographical distance. And for some, who have the privilege of having them close. I honor all of you.
My grandchild, and any yet to come, will reflect my deep love and compassion for my entire family, friends and community.
This is my Legacy.
Grand Love Indeed.
